Now an alternative solution would be to have her join in with your porn watching, act out some of what you see (avoid the donkey and dog shows) and maybe you can rekindle the wood in the oven.
Have you considered the possibility that there is no program and she only told you that to make you nervous?
Seriously, you guys need to come to a resolution on this. A trust issue here might not bode well for the overall relationship if left unaddressed.
well it started with her asking if i look at porn because she hates it. of course i lied. then she found stuff on my computer because i didnt cover my tracks. she kept checking and asking and i kept lying. then our sex life went down a bit and then she went balls to the wall on it i really dont think i have a porn problem lol. i look at it like 4 or 5 times a week. sex has been down to about 2 or 3 times a week. but honestly, some days i go to class then come home from work at 1030 or 11 and i just want to take a shower and chill out
*cough*fairy*cough* j/k So you don't know the name of the program or even know 100% that she installed one? I think the easiest way to figure it out would be to hit Ctrl + Shift + Esc and check there to see if there is a program running. If that doesn't work or you're not sure what you are looking for, use CCleaner to wipe your history everytime you use the net. You can also clear your browser by going to History > Clear History or Tools > Privacy > Clear cookies/history. Here is a link for CCleaner http://www.filehippo.com/download_ccleaner/download/86e6a458e780243c3a944b66ec60b319/ Okay, now all of the younger members, forget what you just read. That wasn't an invitation to go surf for pron.
i dont think so. she is finding cached pictures and stuff. and then she asked me again in an email today and said something along the lines of, "i just wanted to hear it from you before i check my email." i doubt its a BS routine. she is probably getting email updates
Damn! You must have married twice to realize just how devious the so called fairer sex is! It seems like from what he stated earlier that she's found some goodies so you're probably wrong, but still.....
honestly you are being an ***hole. Since the case your wife wants it more than you are, right now you are essentially choosing porn over your wife. Of course she is going to feel jealous of porn. Maybe you can take some of the time it is taking you to find out how to hide your porn habit and find a way to make it work with her or leave her and watch all the porn you can handle.
i checked all those and searched them all and none of them come up as anything i dont know or suspicious plus if she is searching my history i dont want to tip her off you know. thats why i asking about googles incognito, but im not sure if i want to test it out what about installing linux?
Never been married but I did date a succubus for a while. I should have known it was a mistake when she said she was a patriots fan.
Damn this is a serious problem however I think the best way to solve this is to get a laptop. I mean its the best way to hide it from her and the best way for her to believe you actually quit. It might be expensive, But not to hear her mouth (or emails) might be worth it. There are some serious trust issues but i can see where your coming from
but she can just get access to that too and if i pass protect it, then its the same thing all over again there are trust issues. she basically thinks its cheating. no amount of logic will sway her
Out of curiosity what is the age range of you and your fiance and how long have you been living together and dating?
im 24 she is 23. we have been together for over 2 years. not living together exactly though. she wants to wait till we are married which is fine be me
I'm the wrong person to ask, but I would think that using that (or separate accounts on your computer) would still leave you with the same problem because FF would still be shared between accounts. Maybe I'm wrong.
Honestly, it sounds to me like you caught a good one, you shouldn't do anything to screw it up. Would you rather have a girl that nagged you about porn or a girl that liked porn and cheated on you?
no what im saying that i am going to be living with her for the rest of my life. if she isnt completely moved in until we get married, its ok by me. what the rush?
maynard: it's not about the pron at this point in my opinion it's about the trust. you admittedly kept lying to her about pron and she kept finding stuff. the fact that she looked is crappy but the fact that you lied is kinda crappy too. but to help your pron situation... look on the back of the computer. sometimes there is a device plugged in that is logging your keystrokes. if that's not there def. go to "Start - Run - Msconfig" and look under "startup" or "processes" kinda like opie said. If something doesn't make sense you can look it up at exelibrary http://exelib.com/ Create a separate user account or password protect the one you're on. If you have firefox get https://addons.mozilla.org/en-US/firefox/addon/1306 Agree with L2G sounds like the woman you've got is a keeper. Every relationship has its issues and hopefully this is one you can work out. Good luck.
Exactly. You lied continually to cover it up. You couple that with, not wanting it as much, of course she's going to see it as a problem. Why did you feel you couldn't be honest with her?
your right. she is all about me all the time. just gets jealous. i would feel like a total douche if this was the reason why it ended
Alright, so you're both young. Is she Latina BTW? I'm not being funny, my wife in South American and I'm American. She could go 7 nights a week (she doesn't work, I'm the sole provider) but I work full time and during the week I come home tired sometimes. Couple that with dinner and I'm not feeling really horny all the time. I bought these pills to help keep the soldier at full attention, even when the rest of me is done for the night, and they come in handy on a weeknight after a long day.
im not saying im innocent lol. i lied because i didnt want to piss her off. i told i would stop to shut her up
haha. thats hilarious. no she is blonde white girl. just has a crazy sex drive tell me about it. after a full day and eating i just dont want it sometimes lol
Im with Finacious. Hiding it is only going to make it worse, because lets be honest, women are smarter then us in some areas and they will figure it out eventually. The only way to solve this is to be open and honest about it and explain to her its got nothing to do with your attraction to her, you just happen to like porn and need to get yourself off sometimes. its perfectly natural and if she has a problem with it bro, trust me, it aint gonna work out.
yeah, but then i would have to "admit i have a porn problem" then i would have to require all you guys to go get help with me lol
its not a problem, there is nothing wrong with watching porn and taking care of yourself. youre not going to hell man.
That's just it though, you are making decisions based on what you want for yourself. In a relationship, especially one this serious, your decisions have to be about the both of you. I don't care what the relationship is, whether it be business, friendship, sexual, love, etc. there has to be equality. A relationship can work if you're giving 50% as long as she is as well. If you are honest about it, and really open up about it, if she's the right one, she'll understand. Women aren't as complicated as most make them out to be. They don't trust you when you lie. That's not complicated.
can you forward me any of your pron passwords before the GF gets to them? it'll be like when Big brother gives little bro his old Playboy Mags
