um...yeah...lol. so just a couple of hours this happened to me. everything was going along great. then she stops. then i notice tears coming down....oh boy. then she goes on to tell me about some family problem that has her really upset. huh? how is it even possible to think of such things. for me, there is nothing going on in my head whatsoever other than the moment at hand and how i can prolong it at long as possible lol are girls aliens or what? i know we dont have many ladies in the house, but if there are i would appreciate an explanation has this happened to any of you guys?
Well kindve....but not off subject.. That is, I had a girl that started bawlling like crazy, but right after she had reached the MUTHA of all releases...she went on and on for awhile, apoligizing... I for some reason actually understood. Comptely changing subjects during? Sorry bro, cant help you out there.
yeah man. totally weird. it wasnt like she wasnt into it or didnt want it. just all of the sudden..bam! i could see maybe if it happened after. made no sense to me
Well that's good to hear, as you might've crossed into an ENTIRELY different area if that was the case... If you are really into this girl, and in my case, we had been dating for a couple...........of years that is. I would just ask her. I would also be ready to spend a fair amount of time listening....and I mean REALLY listening. If you are seriously into her, and you can get past that heart sharing time,...well then all is good....
Correct, and as long as it ISNT rape, cause that is only going to cost you lots of un-comfort and crying during sex.......well at least for the next 3-5 years...
Does anyone else find it strange that the most knowledgeable poster on this topic is a 13 year old? Geez, what's this world coming to?
I'm not sure it's such a good idea to 'talk things over'. That may work in the long run, but wouldn't it just be easier to get a blindfold and soundproof headphones? Next time the crying happens, just whip out the blindfold and headphones and pretend nothing ever happened. If she loves you, she'll understand. Disclaimer: I am joking, and would never act in this manner; as should no one else.
Good lord, Man!! Ya must not have been doin' som'n right for her to go changin' horses in mid-stream like that!!
im a girl and ive never come close to crying during..... the incident....lol. sorry maynard...you got a weird one on your hands. clearly she wasn't into it because she was thinking SO MUCH about this problem that it brought her to tears.....there's no way to bring yourself to cry unless you're thinking really hard about something.....and that something wasn't you. i know that sounds harsh, but that's the only reality i can think of
Girls are different man. Speaking in generalities, different stuff goes thru their minds before, during and after. It's the reason why they want to cuddle when all you're thinking about is how the hell you're going to get out of there in the next 60 seconds. So it's entirely possible for this chick to be thinking about her present situation one second, and something completely different (the thing that made her cry) the next. And it's possible that she felt emotions of guilt about partaking in the festivities while something awful is happening in her family. Which might be what triggered such a sudden, polar reaction. As AZ said, if you're 'really' into her, listen to her.
what a clever, and subtle way to let us know you finally lost your virginity Maynard! seriously. yeah chicks are crazy. haven't had to deal with that yet thankfully. i think i married the most emotionally rock solid one on the planet thank God. she is by no means perfect, but is almost drama free. kinda scary to think you two were getting your groove on, and "family issues" get her all out of sorts at that moment. i would seriously start looking for other signs of wierdness.
Shouldve just punched her in the face.....really give her something to cry about....enless you care for her....then you shouldve just checked your cell phone and bailed.....say your cousins in the hospital or something....then change your number....thats too crazy for my liking
Just to add..... If this indeed what happened, I think it speaks well for her. She may or may not be a good person, we don't know her. But she does care for others. And family is important to her.
I agree with Mandy. She was't as into it as you may have thought. When we're into it, nothing else is in our heads. When we're not into it, were thinking about work, family, bills, problems, etc. My guess is that she was hoping the act would distract her from the problems, but it didn't. She needs to learn that it hardly ever does.
wow Maynard...you da man.......you must be hung like a french pony! j/k. I agree with the lovely ladies....and Mandy.
I feel obligated to post in this thread so here goes... I had a girl cry ONCE. Although I think it was for a different reason than you listed. It was the first time she ever had...you know...the big 'O'. She immediately broke down and bawled like crazy. She said they were tears of joy, and of course I had no reason not to believe her. (The stud I am)
Plenty of other threads for me to jack in here......"just to talk" is pickin up steam again, after alen attempted to destroy it :alen:
I just thanked you because i like that movie.....not because of the use of the picture, just throwin that out there
Hmmm. I dunno how much I can help, but girls cry around me aLL the time. During sex, on a date, just holding a conversation. Heck, my mom just yesterday looked at me and ran from the room sobbing and asking "why me?" over and over again. I chalk it up to girls being weird.
OH SNAP. Did you just question maynards manhood? Seriously though.....during...very weird...afterwards...it happens. Especially when the girl has a "feeling" that you pulled a pump and dump.
