http://sports.espn.go.com/espn/otl/news/story?id=5132299 Sounds like there were rumblings within the organization as far back as 2005.
Always thought he seemed like a D-bag, even before all this stuff started coming out. I heard (I think it was Peter King) on Sirius NFL radio a week or so ago telling a story about how a rookie/UDFA came up to Ben in the locker room during training camp one year and asked him if he could sign a few jerseys that he had so he could donate them to a charity he was doing some work for and Ben refused. Pretty awful if you ask me.