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Countdown to being single

Discussion in 'Lounge' started by Fin-Omenal, May 16, 2009.

  1. Fin-Omenal

    Fin-Omenal Initiated

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    As alot of others Im about 5 hours from being single....

    7 years wasted a precious little girl who deserves to have a stable family....am i sad? It will hit hard at some point Im sure but right now Im just hurting for my little girl.
     
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  2. SICK

    SICK Lounge Moderator

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    1.) how is there a countdown?

    B.) if you need anything bro....let me know. you should move to nc with jay and E :shifty:
     
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  3. anlgp

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    **** that.

    aim me if you need to (i'm themangoduck)
     
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  4. Fin-Omenal

    Fin-Omenal Initiated

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    Appreciate it...

    Long story as far as the countdown goes....this is life I guess, looking foward to the show tonight.

    Ironically the owner of our company has put a few bids out in NC for striping work, and if he starts to get a few he may open another company in NC. So yea at this point anything is possible.
     
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  5. Fin-Omenal

    Fin-Omenal Initiated

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    Thanks man.....we were an accident waiting to happen for a long time so there is no shock factor involved.
     
  6. anlgp

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    so were my ex and i. it still sucks.
     
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  7. Fin-Omenal

    Fin-Omenal Initiated

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    It is what it is......anytime your with someone this long you grow attached but we were not the typical couple anyway.

    Relationships take work and both of us our lazy.
     
  8. SICK

    SICK Lounge Moderator

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    i am so sorry bro. i feel for your daughter. and i feel for you. you know my aim.......lemme know if you need something bro. i consider you a friend.....i am always here for a friend :ffic:
     
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  9. mor911

    mor911 pooping

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    What the hell is going on?
     
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  10. Fin-Omenal

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    Just another poster who is on the outs with the "other" maybe this site is bad luck.:sad:
     
  11. Fin Fan In Cali

    Fin Fan In Cali Dolphin fan since 1970 Luxury Box

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    Keep the faith brother. :wink2: You will always have your little girl. Relationships require a lot of give and take. If you need an ear you got one here.:hi5:
     
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  12. anlgp

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    and not any of that "she gives you **** and you take it" stuff either. :lol:
     
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  13. Regan21286

    Regan21286 MCAT's, EMT's, AMCAS, ugh

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    Sorry to hear that bro. But all's not lost, at least you still have a daughter to love.

    That doesn't bode well for my relationship...:(
     
  14. Fin Fan In Cali

    Fin Fan In Cali Dolphin fan since 1970 Luxury Box

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    I didn't say that bro.:hi5: In a relationship you don't always take a straight line to the response you are looking for. It is kinda of like being a staff member here. You can still achieve the same results with a different approach and words, and still get the touchdown!:lol:
     
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  15. Fin-Omenal

    Fin-Omenal Initiated

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    Thats one of the biggest problems we have....when we argue she wants to do it in front of my kid, and thats BS and it makes me mad.

    Shes young and immature...and I have my faults, better to just go our seperate ways, I actually feel a little relieved.
     
  16. Fin Fan In Cali

    Fin Fan In Cali Dolphin fan since 1970 Luxury Box

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    That is good bro that you don't like arguing in front of your daughter. Perhaps when it is all said and done you can at least be friends for your daughter's sake.
     
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  17. Fin-Omenal

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    Yea hope so also....

    She has a big family and some of them I really care for so hopefully this will end civally, although with her Im not sure its possible.
     
  18. King Felix

    King Felix Season Ticket Holder Club Member

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    i feel for you...me and my ex broke up in jan and its still effecting me almost everyday
     
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  19. anlgp

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    :lol: i know i was trying to bring levity to the situation.. bad timing i guess.

    losses affect everyone; it's how you deal with them that make you a success.
     
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  20. Fin Fan In Cali

    Fin Fan In Cali Dolphin fan since 1970 Luxury Box

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    Brother Eric I got this :az: from my first wife when I got back from Desert Shield, and Desert Storm. We ended as friends, and I helped her move twice. I don't have contact with her anymore. It was a blessing in disguise as I met my current wife, and have been married for 17 years. So do not give up hope bro.:wink2:
     
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  21. Fin Fan In Cali

    Fin Fan In Cali Dolphin fan since 1970 Luxury Box

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    I know this maybe real hard and try your patience, but try to be the bigger person. This may make things better for your daughter. I am not saying your ex is right, but by being the bigger person things might not get so heated.:wink2:
     
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  22. BuckeyeKing

    BuckeyeKing Wolves DYNASTY!!!!

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    Sorry to hear that bro. Stay strong it sounds like your making the right choice not only for yourself but for your daughter also.


    Also were here for you buddy.
     
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  23. FinSane

    FinSane Cynical Dolphins Fan

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    this is why i stay single
     
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  24. Fin-Omenal

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    Smart man!
     
  25. Brown42000

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    Your 19 and broke up with your girlfriend in January and it still effects you? I'm surprised unless you we were with her for a few years.

    Yeah this is why you stay single. :lol:
     
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  26. Fin-Omenal

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    Quick Update.....We are through.....And this is how I feel...




    [ame="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-HmHvZkoJgI"]YouTube - BRAVEHEART - FREEDOM[/ame]
     
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  27. Big E

    Big E Plus sized porn star

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    Ditto with me Mike, my phone is always on.
     
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  28. Sethdaddy8

    Sethdaddy8 Well-Known Member

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    best of luck bro.
     
  29. slickj101

    slickj101 Is Water

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    Haha. I hope you at least escaped with your head, and/or balls.

    Seriously though, good luck, man.

    IMO, just make sure you do whatever you can to help your daughter. You def sound like that's your #1 priority so I'm sure you'll be fine.
     
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  30. GISH

    GISH ~mUST wARN oTHERS~

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    sorry Fin-O. keep ur chin up.
     
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  31. Phinperor

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    Being that I'm still going through my divorce if you want to talk bro just hit me up, we can probably relate with one another's situation a little better.
     
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  32. Fin-Omenal

    Fin-Omenal Initiated

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    Appreciate the support fella's really.

    She wants to live here and I dont think thats a good idea but what am I going to do? Cant kick her out with no where to go..

    All and all a bad situation.
     
  33. FinSane

    FinSane Cynical Dolphins Fan

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    You got enough to pay for a hotel?
     
  34. Fin-Omenal

    Fin-Omenal Initiated

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    Yea but for how long? This truely sucks man!

    Im stuck....she is VERY imature and is needling me about seeing my kid only on the wekends, thats crossing the line and honestly Im trying to keep my composure for my kid's sake.
     
  35. steveincolorado

    steveincolorado Spook, Storme & Pebbles

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    I can't really say a whole lot, I've never been thru what your going thru. I can only wish you well and there are a lot of people on here that can help you out.

    Bottem line is that we're all family on here.
     
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  36. Fin-Omenal

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    Ty bro.
     
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