Countdown to being single

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Fin-OmenalFin-OmenalNew MemberOP
May 16, 2009, 05:34 PM

As alot of others Im about 5 hours from being single....

7 years wasted a precious little girl who deserves to have a stable family....am i sad? It will hit hard at some point Im sure but right now Im just hurting for my little girl.

SICKSICKforum_veteran
May 16, 2009, 05:41 PM

1.) how is there a countdown?

B.) if you need anything bro....let me know. you should move to nc with jay and E :shifty:

anlgpanlgpNew Member
May 16, 2009, 05:45 PM

**** that.

aim me if you need to (i'm themangoduck)

"A man's suffering is similar to the behavior of gas. If a certain quantity of gas is pumped into an empty chamber, it will fill the chamber completely and evenly, no matter how big the chamber. Thus, suffering completely fills the human soul and conscious mind, no matter whether the suffering great or little. Therefore, the "size" of human suffering is absolutely relative." - Viktor Frankl

Fin-OmenalFin-OmenalNew Member
May 16, 2009, 05:47 PM

"SickFinFan33 wrote:

1.) how is there a countdown?

B.) if you need anything bro....let me know. you should move to nc with jay and E :shifty:

Appreciate it...

Long story as far as the countdown goes....this is life I guess, looking foward to the show tonight.

Ironically the owner of our company has put a few bids out in NC for striping work, and if he starts to get a few he may open another company in NC. So yea at this point anything is possible.

Fin-OmenalFin-OmenalNew Member
May 16, 2009, 05:49 PM

"anlgp wrote:

**** that.

aim me if you need to (i'm themangoduck)

Thanks man.....we were an accident waiting to happen for a long time so there is no shock factor involved.

anlgpanlgpNew Member
May 16, 2009, 05:50 PM

"Fin-Omenal wrote:

Thanks man.....we were an accident waiting to happen for a long time so there is no shock factor involved.

so were my ex and i. it still sucks.

"A man's suffering is similar to the behavior of gas. If a certain quantity of gas is pumped into an empty chamber, it will fill the chamber completely and evenly, no matter how big the chamber. Thus, suffering completely fills the human soul and conscious mind, no matter whether the suffering great or little. Therefore, the "size" of human suffering is absolutely relative." - Viktor Frankl

Fin-OmenalFin-OmenalNew Member
May 16, 2009, 05:52 PM

"anlgp wrote:

so were my ex and i. it still sucks.

It is what it is......anytime your with someone this long you grow attached but we were not the typical couple anyway.

Relationships take work and both of us our lazy.

SICKSICKforum_veteran
May 16, 2009, 05:54 PM

i am so sorry bro. i feel for your daughter. and i feel for you. you know my aim.......lemme know if you need something bro. i consider you a friend.....i am always here for a friend :ffic:

mor911mor911forum_veteran
May 16, 2009, 05:59 PM

What the hell is going on?

yesssssssssssssssssss

Fin D;2829671 wrote:

As mor wisely said

Fin-OmenalFin-OmenalNew Member
May 16, 2009, 06:01 PM

"mor911 wrote:

What the hell is going on?

Just another poster who is on the outs with the "other" maybe this site is bad luck.:sad:

Fin Fan In CaliFin Fan In Caliluxury_box
May 16, 2009, 06:09 PM

"Fin-Omenal wrote:

Just another poster who is on the outs with the "other" maybe this site is bad luck.:sad:

Keep the faith brother. :wink2: You will always have your little girl. Relationships require a lot of give and take. If you need an ear you got one here.:hi5:


Rest in peace bigbry and dolphin debby!

anlgpanlgpNew Member
May 16, 2009, 06:15 PM

"Fin Fan In Cali wrote:

Keep the faith brother. :wink2: You will always have your little girl. Relationships require a lot of give and take. If you need an ear you got one here.:hi5:

and not any of that "she gives you **** and you take it" stuff either. :lol:

"A man's suffering is similar to the behavior of gas. If a certain quantity of gas is pumped into an empty chamber, it will fill the chamber completely and evenly, no matter how big the chamber. Thus, suffering completely fills the human soul and conscious mind, no matter whether the suffering great or little. Therefore, the "size" of human suffering is absolutely relative." - Viktor Frankl

Regan21286Regan21286New Member
May 16, 2009, 06:16 PM

Sorry to hear that bro. But all's not lost, at least you still have a daughter to love.

"Fin-Omenal wrote:

Just another poster who is on the outs with the "other" maybe this site is bad luck.:sad:

That doesn't bode well for my relationship...:(

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Fin Fan In CaliFin Fan In Caliluxury_box
May 16, 2009, 06:26 PM

"anlgp wrote:

and not any of that "she gives you **** and you take it" stuff either. :lol:

I didn't say that bro.:hi5: In a relationship you don't always take a straight line to the response you are looking for. It is kinda of like being a staff member here. You can still achieve the same results with a different approach and words, and still get the touchdown!:lol:


Rest in peace bigbry and dolphin debby!

Fin-OmenalFin-OmenalNew Member
May 16, 2009, 06:32 PM

"Fin Fan In Cali wrote:

I didn't say that bro.:hi5: In a relationship you don't always take a straight line to the response you are looking for. It is kinda of like being a staff member here. You can still achieve the same results with a different approach and words, and still get the touchdown!:lol:

Thats one of the biggest problems we have....when we argue she wants to do it in front of my kid, and thats BS and it makes me mad.

Shes young and immature...and I have my faults, better to just go our seperate ways, I actually feel a little relieved.

Fin Fan In CaliFin Fan In Caliluxury_box
May 16, 2009, 06:34 PM

"Fin-Omenal wrote:

Thats one of the biggest problems we have....when we argue she wants to do it in front of my kid, and thats BS and it makes me mad.

Shes young and immature...and I have my faults, better to just go our seperate ways, I actually feel a little relieved.

That is good bro that you don't like arguing in front of your daughter. Perhaps when it is all said and done you can at least be friends for your daughter's sake.


Rest in peace bigbry and dolphin debby!

Fin-OmenalFin-OmenalNew Member
May 16, 2009, 06:39 PM

"Fin Fan In Cali wrote:

That is good bro that you don't like arguing in front of your daughter. Perhaps when it is all said and done you can at least be friends for your daughter's sake.

Yea hope so also....

She has a big family and some of them I really care for so hopefully this will end civally, although with her Im not sure its possible.

King FelixKing Felixsubscriber
May 16, 2009, 06:42 PM

i feel for you...me and my ex broke up in jan and its still effecting me almost everyday

anlgpanlgpNew Member
May 16, 2009, 07:21 PM

"Fin Fan In Cali wrote:

I didn't say that bro.:hi5: In a relationship you don't always take a straight line to the response you are looking for. It is kinda of like being a staff member here. You can still achieve the same results with a different approach and words, and still get the touchdown!:lol:

:lol: i know i was trying to bring levity to the situation.. bad timing i guess.

"King Felix wrote:

i feel for you...me and my ex broke up in jan and its still effecting me almost everyday

losses affect everyone; it's how you deal with them that make you a success.

"A man's suffering is similar to the behavior of gas. If a certain quantity of gas is pumped into an empty chamber, it will fill the chamber completely and evenly, no matter how big the chamber. Thus, suffering completely fills the human soul and conscious mind, no matter whether the suffering great or little. Therefore, the "size" of human suffering is absolutely relative." - Viktor Frankl

Fin Fan In CaliFin Fan In Caliluxury_box
May 16, 2009, 07:34 PM

"King Felix wrote:

i feel for you...me and my ex broke up in jan and its still effecting me almost everyday

Brother Eric I got this :az: from my first wife when I got back from Desert Shield, and Desert Storm. We ended as friends, and I helped her move twice. I don't have contact with her anymore. It was a blessing in disguise as I met my current wife, and have been married for 17 years. So do not give up hope bro.:wink2:


Rest in peace bigbry and dolphin debby!

Fin Fan In CaliFin Fan In Caliluxury_box
May 16, 2009, 07:36 PM

"Fin-Omenal wrote:

Yea hope so also....

She has a big family and some of them I really care for so hopefully this will end civally, although with her Im not sure its possible.

I know this maybe real hard and try your patience, but try to be the bigger person. This may make things better for your daughter. I am not saying your ex is right, but by being the bigger person things might not get so heated.:wink2:


Rest in peace bigbry and dolphin debby!

BuckeyeKingBuckeyeKingNew Member
May 16, 2009, 07:38 PM

Sorry to hear that bro. Stay strong it sounds like your making the right choice not only for yourself but for your daughter also.

Also were here for you buddy.

FinSaneFinSaneforum_veteran
May 16, 2009, 08:00 PM

this is why i stay single

Fin-OmenalFin-OmenalNew Member
May 16, 2009, 08:08 PM

"FinSane wrote:

this is why i stay single

Smart man!

Brown42000Brown42000New Member
May 17, 2009, 02:38 AM

"King Felix wrote:

i feel for you...me and my ex broke up in jan and its still effecting me almost everyday

Your 19 and broke up with your girlfriend in January and it still effects you? I'm surprised unless you we were with her for a few years.

"FinSane wrote:

this is why i stay single

Yeah this is why you stay single. :lol:

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