He'd be dead, they be in mourning, mourning rhymes with horning, I don't know where I'm going with this but you'd prolly be able to keep the camera.
anyone else see the irony here...his fiancee is tracking his internet usage.... and he's going on the internet to ask guys how to get around it. Who thinks his fiancee is going to be reading this tonight?
She's monitoring you? Like you would, say, a child? And this is before you're even married...how does this bode for the future? I'm sorry to be blunt, but I'm one who has had a crazy ****ing ex steal his email account and send off a mass message to all his contacts saying what a bastard he was. Business contacts included. Will Robinson, heed the waving arms - DANGER!
OMG!! Thats beyond screwed up! I just dont even know what to say to that. Please tell me you got her back!
I feel for you... Luckily for me my girlfriend likes porn so I have no issues. Helps considering I build sites as a side job.
pornhub.com or cliphunter.com then clear your cookies and temporary internet files and browser history before logging off...... boom. in the clear.
This is different than that if she has something separate logging and saving those files it won't matter what he clears.
You guys missed the part where it was maynard violating hte trust (promising not to surf but still doing it ) Hmm, how about a virtual OS? Install a virtual machine, a free OS like linux or something, and surf away. I have no idea if this will block the snooping program but it might
In most instances I'd say you're right but there are always exceptions. With some things it's simply not always the best policy. Women and men are different bottom line. We all know that and both sexes group together and marvel at the things the other sex does. Women can be irrational on things that we feel are innocent and that in reality are very much innocent. The practice of porn surfing by men is one of those issues that women just do not get. Some feel hurt by it. They shouldn't but they do. If you have one of those women "fessing up to it" and "trying to make them oK with it" is NOT going to work. It's better to hide this practice if it's a situation where the girl simply cannot come to terms with it but it's also something a guy feels he needs to do to keep things fresh without cheating.
my last ex-gf who I dated for like 7 years had no problem with porn. Wouldn't even be disgusted when I watched it in front of her, and always stole the best chicks when we went to strip clubs. When we went to thailand I was beat tired and wanted to hit the sack but nooooo, we had to go see a sex show before we flew home. My new girlfriend doesn't particularly like it, but has not stopped me. Just says, ewww, gross, etc. Its one thing i will not stand for. I will watch porn, I will download it, and occasionally I will TMI WARNING!!!!!!!!!!!!! yank to it. its on my laptop, it's on my desktop, luckily its not on my iphone, but if I get a netbook it might be on there too. She will not make me stop it, but she won't partake like the last one did. And I don't mind that, just don't infringe on my freeeeeeeeeedom!
Time to take up "paper porn" again.....ofcourse from the sounds of things, there may very well be a motion sensored video camera right behind you.
Time for a little womanly perspective here. As many have pointed out there's many issues here. 1. The lack of trust in the relationship. You admitted you lied several times. She suspected you were lying (women can usually tell) and began to snoop. You broke her trust, but I'm sure she broke yours by installing the software. IMO you guys should work on your trust issue. 2. The "pron". My guess is she feels self conscious about the porn. The fact that you admitted she wants sex more then you and your "content" to watch the porn, my guess is there's a part of her that feels that you don't think she's actractive. That the girls are prettier then her. That may be further from the truth, but my guess is there's a part of her that feels that way. Theres nothing wrong with a little porn, in fact, it can be healthy. My suggestion would be to try to get her into watching some of it with you. You may have to start with softcore "romanic and girly" porn and go from there. Does she have a specific fettish or fantasy? Or a certain type of man? Try to see if you can find something that she may be interested in. Make her relaxed and comfortable and get her to watch it with you, even if its just for a few min. Now don't freak her out with anything to over the top, no girl on girl (unless she's into it) or money shots, or anything to freaky or kinky. My guess is, that if you two were able to watch some porn together, it would also help on the trust issues. Good luck!
enough about him...lets talk about you... as suggested, lets take girl on girl and money shots. are you pro or con gog and money shots?
That hit the nail on the head! I was with a girl once who would freak out if I did anything small, even go to Hooters!! She felt inferior to those girls and the ones online. I wouldnt even be able to go over to the ladies lounge if I were still with her. But it is an issue with her own self-confidence, she feels like she is not pretty enough so you want to look at "better" girls than her. Maybe try to watch Porn with 300lb midget transexuals and I guarentee she will not be as offended.
I'll be honest. Money shots kinda gross me out and girl on girl does nothing for me, but I understand why men are turned on by both.
my old lady has an issue with porn on the internet. and she has a point, because there is a fine line between like, cybering and meeting real people with the potential to screw around...and simple studio porn. she could care less if i pop a dvd in, but interwebz porn, she has a fairly valid trust issue with. maynard, can you discuss/clarify the porn issue with her? maybe you have to bite the bullet and just buy dvd's if she'll be okay with that.
i dont like girl on girl...for some reason, and i dont like any orgies or multiple scenarios..i just like 1 on 1, man on woman. but i like the money shots. its something we talk about on my LPSG.