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Remember when people thought Chad Johnson was innocent?

Discussion in 'Miami Dolphins Forum' started by slickj101, Jun 19, 2013.

  1. djphinfan

    djphinfan Season Ticket Holder Club Member

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    He should be incredibly humbled in that courtroom if he indeed launched his head at a woman and did that, he shouldnt be in the state of mind that allows him to slap someone on the ***..to me that means he's not getting the point or the seriousness of the crime
     
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  2. Aquafin

    Aquafin New Member

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    the poor house
    you know many people never forgave Randy McMichael when he had his domestic abuse and from what I read his wife attacked him while throwing up which if I am throwing up I don't want to be hassled either . I dont believe in half of what is said about these players because I m not there but nothing suprises me these days.

    I would rather have resigned Chris Chambers then this cat , and I was a big chad Johnson fan back when he was in cinci.
     
  3. cuchulainn

    cuchulainn Táin Bó Cúailnge Club Member

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  4. djphinfan

    djphinfan Season Ticket Holder Club Member

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    He's an immature dude who doesn't know how to act like a man.
     
  5. rafael

    rafael Well-Known Member

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    I've spent several years working with either the DV court and/or with and around the DV advocates (they help the victims of DV) and my observation is that +90% of all the DV cases involve mutual combat (and the studies I've seen support that observation). That means that both parties are equally combative. Now the guy is usually arrested just b/c he's stronger and more likely to cause an injury. By far the most common scenario I saw was where the woman hit the guy repeatedly until he snapped and hit back once. The cases where you just have the guy be a monster who terrorizes his wife or GF are the exceptions. It's not politically correct to say, but IMO most of these cases involve two equally guilty parties. I've seen so many cases where the same woman returns to court as a victim, but with a different guy. I don't think the woman is lying either. I believe she was hit (or pushed or whatever), but I think she looks for that type of guy. Usually if you talk to her you find she had other relationships in between with "nice guys" who she just found boring. I think that most of these women subconsciously look for the drama. My advice to my son or any young man is that if you find yourself in a relationship where the woman seems to seek out that drama, that you should run away and find a less crazy chick.
     
  6. unluckyluciano

    unluckyluciano For My Hero JetsSuck

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    best advice my dad gave me haha
     
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  7. rafael

    rafael Well-Known Member

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    In my work with the prison systems I find that most everybody who is incarcerated is there b/c of who they married or who they hung out with (friends or significant others).
     
  8. unluckyluciano

    unluckyluciano For My Hero JetsSuck

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    yup. Reminds me of the bmarsh fights. He can't get away from that girl, and they don't mix. So they end up having bad fights I'd imagine. Ray Lewis I think is another example of that. Can't leave his hood friends alone. And he paid for it.
     
  9. Drowning

    Drowning ONCE MORE UNTO THE BREACH

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    A thread devoid of sinners. I am truly blessed. Hope the sarcasm isn't too subtle.

    Do you know why she got her head split in? Neither do I. Ain't that something? May be, Splitty and Stinko are the only ones who will ever know.

    Let me paint a picture for you. Y'all like art? Don't matter. It's the wee hours of the still dark morning. A group of friends are riding on the expressway with the club beats still fading from the south beach nightlife behind them, shrinking into the distance. Doing 70. Fast enough not to attract attention and slow enough to not look suspicious. When out of nowhere, up from the passenger side seat lunges an inebriated half-wit who succeeds in grabbing the steering wheel and jerking just short of claiming 5 human lives because driver-looked-at-another-girl escalated into the twilight zone- CHECK THAT- faces of death.

    Listen, I'm glad my best friend knocked her out cold where she sat because if she would have been awake when we pulled over in utter astounded silence, I would have broken the stillness of disbelief by bashing the *****'s forehead in.

    The only hands I've ever laid on a woman were done so in moments of love or pleasure. Any man in his right mind knows the this law well. But if you think you know it or have seen it all, people, you ain't seen or been through sh!t because those that have, know that the only certainty there is is that you don't REALLY know a damn thing and you have't REALLY ever seen it all.
     
  10. djphinfan

    djphinfan Season Ticket Holder Club Member

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    Let me just try to follow here, so after she grabbed the wheel and y'all almost crashed he knocked her out, or he knocked her out to keep her from grabbing the wheel?
     
  11. MrClean

    MrClean Inglourious Basterd Club Member

    Seems fairly clear to me. It would be the former.
     
  12. BevoPhin

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    It sounds like his boy was driving, his boys woman was in the passenger seat and freaked out because he looked at another girl and grabbed the wheel. Once had a girl freak out similarly because she thought a bartender flirted with me. Had a girlfriend that liked to break expensive things, etc. And this was all in college with somewhat intelligent girls. Bottom line, girls can be scary and my unborn sons arent going to be allowed to have a serious girlfriend through school.
     
  13. bigbucks24

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    I guess you missed this part in many articles.

    There is no way I believe that he has acted respectfully and seriously in the courtroom until this incident. Then because of one incident, when he was just doing what come naturally to him, because he is a football player, he is thrown in jail. Is that what you really believe? In my opinion, was this incident enough to get someone thrown in jail. No way. But was the accumulation of things that Chad did in court enough? I think so. In my opinion, this was the straw that broke the camel's back. I think you need to look at the body of work, and not just at this incident.
     
  14. djphinfan

    djphinfan Season Ticket Holder Club Member

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    damn, dude knocked her out while apparently saving lives..
     
  15. djphinfan

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    I don't care if he is a football player, you don't slap your lawyer on the *** in the courtroom where your being summoned for striking a woman, it shows that he's a dumb child that hasn't properly learned a lesson, 7 days in the pen should do it..he deserved it.
     
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  16. Fin D

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    Raf is your dad??!?!?!?!?!?!??!?!?!???!!!
     
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  17. Fin D

    Fin D Sigh

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    The car was parked.

    CJ admitted he screwed up.

    End of story.
     
  18. sloppyjoer

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    Pretty much this. The actions were inappropriate. He's just an idiot all around. Let's see if he slaps his manager's *** working at White Castle now, cuz he's done in the NFL.
     
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  19. Two Tacos

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    Did I miss chad claiming that the headbutt saved lives? It's great that this one time, hitting a female was justified, but I fail to see the relevance. Chad's due process is done, he no longer has any presumption of innocence. He was in court when he slapped his attorneys *** because he couldn't man up and do the punishment required of him for the headbutt.

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  20. Aquafin

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    the poor house
    Rafael is there still women who are after such drama ? seems like that is a majority of the attitude women have now days.

    have been around treatment centers and alcohol abuse and mental health is a big part of the this country's problems .
     
  21. rafael

    rafael Well-Known Member

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    In my experience there are just couples who use fighting as their primary method of communication. My main issue is that people tend to jump to the conclusion that the guy is always the villain. In the vast majority of the cases, it's all about mutual combat. It's easy to say that he should just walk away and obviously he should, but reality is that every human will eventually react if pushed enough. I don't care if he's Ghandi. Everybody has a breaking point and people in relationships know each other's buttons.
     

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