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No offense, but I hate my married friends

Discussion in 'Lounge' started by Stringer Bell, Aug 11, 2010.

  1. texasPHINSfan

    texasPHINSfan New Member

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    how much of it is age versus being married though?

    i am not married, but am older. i have friends who are an early 20's married couple, and they are always going out, going on trips, partying. I'm always wanting to stay home haha

    I just need a porch and a lawn so i can yell at kids to stay off it :lol:
     
  2. femalefinfan

    femalefinfan Phillies fan Luxury Box

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    Thats just sad. I"ll send my man if you need another! I could use a few days without him:wink2:
     
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  3. PhiNomina

    PhiNomina White-Collar Redneck

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    I was just kidding!

    Just saying that a single guy's idea of a fun night and a married guy's idea might be different. If I am going to go out with my buddies I don't want to be left at the bar while they are all out hitting on women. I can enjoy my marriage and enjoy going out with my buddies, right? It just sucks when they all split off and I am left to fend for myself.
     
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  4. Boik14

    Boik14 Season Ticket Holder Club Member

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    :lol: Whoops, that went wayyy over my head .
     
  5. Colorado Dolfan

    Colorado Dolfan ...dirty drownin' man?

    If they agreed to go before they discussed it with their wives, then they're freaking idiots.

    I'd hate them, too. :wink2:
     
  6. Phinvader Bill

    Phinvader Bill The all new Mr. Event

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    My wife goes home every couple of months by herself, and I am going to the Oakland game by myself. No one's whipped here. That being said, I don't think the guys are whipped, as much as being dumbasses. They should have discussed it with the wife first. When you said that the guy was trying to buy the ticket, and the wife lost it, that tells me that was the first she had heard of it.

    You single people who think you're going to get married and do whatever the hell you want whenever you want, no matter what the wife thinks are in for a big surprise if you get married. The surprise will be a divorce.
     
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  7. NJFINSFAN1

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    Yeah, but your still a baby, your wife doesn't know any better yet.:shifty:
     
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  8. NJFINSFAN1

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    I'm going to take a different spin, maybe they are having a rough go financial wise? You could be good friends and not know this.

    And like any guy, we think hell ya, that would be great (without thinking) and than when reality checks in (The wife) you see the better good.
     
  9. FinSane

    FinSane Cynical Dolphins Fan

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    This is why Ill never get married. No disrespect to those who are and are happy, but Im way too independent-minded and introverted to share my space with someone and have to have permission to do things I wanna do.
     
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  10. Boik14

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    this.
     
  11. NJFINSFAN1

    NJFINSFAN1 Premium Member Luxury Box

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    Ahhh, but wait, someday some woman is going to walk into your life and all bets are off. :yes:
     
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  12. Phinvader Bill

    Phinvader Bill The all new Mr. Event

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    I don't need permission. I just discuss things with her. There's a difference.
     
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  13. texanphinatic

    texanphinatic Senior Member

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    Heh I didn't think all that differently once upon a time. Things can change in a hurry when you meet the right person. Don't force it, but don't close it out entirely. :wink2:
     
  14. FinSane

    FinSane Cynical Dolphins Fan

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    Thats good and all, but there's somethings that you'd wanna do by yourself without her knowing what youre going to be doing. I mean, say you want to go to a strip club, you have to discuss that? You dont want to set yourself up for a fight.

    That and I dont want to conform to wearing skinny jeans, must be hurting my social life. :shifty:

    Sure I can see myself getting into a serious relationship and start cohabiting, but actually going through with getting married?? Thats just about out of the question.
     
  15. Boik14

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    haha dude, I don't work like that. If she is restrictive in what I'm allowed to do all bets are off. I've lived like that and it doesn't work for me. I need my freedom or I bug out so even if the girl walked in to my life and my friends ask me to go to Vegas, I'm still going. :lol:
     
  16. finfansince72

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    Kinda hard to judge these guys without knowing the whole story. I wouldn't care if my wife went to Vegas with her friends but if we couldn't afford it or work got in the way, etc, etc, you have responsibilities when you're married that are way more important than a Vegas weekend. Now if these guys are just not allowed to go out of petty jealousy thats one thing but I think a lot of the comments about married guys on here are childish and idiotic.
     
  17. Finsanity

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    your 24. Reply when your in your mid 30. Things change quickly in life unexpectedly. I thought the same way in my 20's. I was always in Hollywood and Vegas meeting woman left and right. As soon as you know it things happen in life that opens up new chapters in life. Doesn't mean you give up your friends or a good time.
     
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  18. texasPHINSfan

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    I said that once.... then I found someone and got married..... later got divorced.

    Wish I would have stuck to my guns in the first place!! :lol:

    For the record, in my case it was a situation that while we were dating and even into the engagement period, I was free to do more of what I wanted, etc. Heck, she even pretended to like the same things I did! Once the "man and wife" bit happened, however, she changed and all of a sudden there were new rules.

    Not saying all women do that, but some do. I don't think anyone for either side of the argument here can use absolutes, honestly.
     
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  19. FinSane

    FinSane Cynical Dolphins Fan

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    It always seems to happen that way. Im also a product of divorced parents, so I have a pessimistic view of marriage as it is. It seems like everyone in my family and friend is either divorced or unhappily married. The very few who are happily married seem to be more the exception rather than the norm. I believe that marriage isn't for everyone, and Im downright convinced it isnt for me. My relationship limit seems to be six months, by then I usually get sick of the other person. I really dont want to put myself, or my future kids, through all that torture. Plus married life seems pretty boring. I hate being around married people and most, but not all, couples, in fact. Even when Im not single it still hate being around that. I also hate having to meet her family and friends. Its not so much that I care what think they about me, its that I have to see those people and be around them, and theyll be in my space. I just cant get over that. Maybe I will in my 30s but right now in my 20s I have no interest in marriage and kids. Kids are a definite no. Not even single women with kids. No thanks, I enjoy my peace and quiet, and being able to watch football when I want, and doing my extra curricular activities. [​IMG]
     
  20. Section126

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    I am married.

    I do whatever the **** I want.

    So I catch some ****...so what? I am used to it.
     
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  21. Stringer Bell

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    I like your style :knucks:
     
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  22. Duss

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    Ot three, they mostly hang out with their buds and are never home...

    That said, a friend of mine just bought new clubs (wich the wife "acccepted" he buy them) but now he cant play golf with them new clubs because she doesnt want to be alone

    on top of that he cancelled his golf trip with couple of us boys in november

    Thaat's lame
     
  23. FinSane

    FinSane Cynical Dolphins Fan

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    All the more power to you my friend. You are one of the lucky few. I prefer my bachelor lifestyle at the moment.
     
  24. unifiedtheory

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    I've lived with my girl for 6+ years, getting engaged when I get tired of making her wait to give her the ring (I've had it hidden in my apartment for 2 months) and I count myself as one of the lucky ones. We encourage each other to do go out with friends etc. outside the relationship, it's called trust.

    I have one friend who is not "allowed" to do things without his girl either. She runs his life and he protests to "liking it", even though the guy went from being pretty cool to someone who no one ever gets to hang with anymore because he won't go anywhere. Hell, she goes out with HER friends and he stays home because she wants him to, pathetic.

    If there is anything I can tell anyone who is getting into the heavy relationship, NEVER lose yourself. Keep something that is you. If that relationship ever ends you'll lose everything and it takes a while to get some of it back if you give it all up.
     
  25. dolfan22

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    msdolfan22 does:up:
     
  26. Stringer Bell

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    2 days and I'll be in Vegas :ffic: :hump: :king:
     
  27. Pagan

    Pagan Metal & a Mustang

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    Personally, I have no such problems with my wife.

    She married a musician, she knows what came with the package.
     
  28. Finsanity

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    Some advice: Wet Republic at the MGM Grand. You wont be dissappointed.
     
  29. Stringer Bell

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    Encore Beach > Wet Republic :yes:
     
  30. Finsanity

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    Have yet to visit encore beach yet but i heard its definately a sight to see.:yes:
     
  31. Stringer Bell

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    Vegas = heaven
     
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  32. PhinishLine

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    Rehab on Sunday at Hard Rock.

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  33. RickyBobby

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    craps tables > pools
     

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