For those who have been too afraid to watch....

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  1. FinSane

    FinSane Cynical Dolphins Fan

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    Having read about homosexuality, I have an idea what you are getting at. Im going to get into some detail about how some homosexuals feel about what is considered a normal sexual lifestyle for homosexuals and there is division within the homosexual community about what is considered normal. Mods, please understand that although this is a family site, we need to have this discussion for education purposes and Im going to try to be as non-vulgar as possible.

    Ok, within the homosexual community, anal sex is considered not only the normal way a male can have sexual relations with another male, it is considered the only way men should engage in sexual activity within one another. However, there are many gays who feel that anal sex is just not much different from having vaginal sex, and therefore, you might as well have vaginal sex. Theres also the issue of cleanliness and just plain personal preference. Many gay males would rather engage in whats called frot or docking, the rubbing of penises together, as an accepted way of sexual activity between males, but it actually rejected by many, I would call, "orthodox homosexuals", who dont believe *****-to-***** sex should be accepted. In fact, many homosexuals who prefer that method are actually not "femis", many of them are covert homosexuals who reject the outwardly gay lifestyle, ya know, the "flamers". Honestly, we need to break from immaturity about ourselves and how we explore ourselves and start to be honest about how we feel. Some would never have thought about experimenting with someone of the same sex, but there are many who would, but they would never, ever come out with it out of fear of rejection. Even on this very site, Im sure there are plenty on here who probably would feel uncomfortable talking to me now that I have been open about how I have felt about my sexuality. Im sure Im 90% straight, all of my relationships have been with females, I have had sex only with females. I regularly pursue females for relationships at about the same rate they pursue me. At the moment, Im dating a very hot 32 year old woman who is a great kisser and great at other things as well. :up: But I also know that there is a curiousity that exists and I cannot suppress it, I have to accept it as part of my makeup for whatever reason its there. However, Im not attracted to males. I dont check them out, I dont fantasize about being romantic with them, and I dont plan on having a monogamous relationship with one. My curiosity just lies with sexual experimentation and nothing further. But for some reason, god or whoever, also wanted me to be attracted to females, but more so on an emotional level and also most especially a physical level. Im not sure if this makes sense to everyone, but unless you're me, I guess you wouldnt understand. :hi5:
     
  2. Dol-Fan Dupree

    Dol-Fan Dupree Tank? Who is Tank? I am Guy Incognito.

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    You did say it was a love story about two people who couldn't love each other. In fact the people who have seen it who told me about it, told me pretty much all I need to know.

    Those types of movies do not interest me very much.

    I do think it is too bad that there are some insecure people out there that feel the need to hate on things to make themselves feel better.
     
  3. FinSane

    FinSane Cynical Dolphins Fan

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    Yea, regardless of what Ive stated on here, I still have no desire to see it. :)
     
  4. slickj101

    slickj101 Is Water

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    lol no man. You totally missed what I was trying to say. Actually you almost stated the opposite.

    My point was that the ones in the parades acting really flamboyant cast the strongest stereotype. I'm saying that I know not all gay people are like that obviously. But, a lot of society just assumes everyone who is gay acts fruity as hell because what they remember seeing in the media and what stands out the most are the ones who are over the top.
     
  5. Dol-Fan Dupree

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    that isn't their fault. That is kind of the "society" fault for being ignorant and assuming everyone is like a small minority.
     

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